Separation

💫Separation is a word of many meanings and emotions…CHANGE in general many times INVOLVE a SEPARATION to move us from the old to the new….💫

Today I would like to share a perspective on the importance of understanding how we process separation as it becomes a DEFINING MOMENT on how we will experience life. I am going to be focusing on the drivers of human psychology, approaches to process separation, and the impact of our approach.

🤯Human Psychology. Many of us believe that human nature is at a minimum to focus in surviving and we will do anything for that…. It has been demonstrated is not the case… us humans will actually do anything to protect the identity that we have created for ourselves…. Yes that identity that we are proud or not but we will defend it no matter what. I am a man /woman of my word. I deliver excellent results, I will never leave you behind, I am a family man/woman, and many others… 💪💪

❓What do you identify yourself with? ⏳Take a few seconds to have your identity sentence….⏳ Great we are going to do a test with this…. 🤓

⚠️ Approaches to Face Separation… The way we process SEPARATION and to be truthful most of what we do in life is filtered through the lenses 🤓of our background and our mindsets… No matter what we do, we bring our whole selves with us…. SEPARATION is not the exception… so if we know that SEPARATION is an emotionally charged word… ⚡️

❓When you hear this word: what is the 1st thing that comes to your mind an emotion charged with excitement or maybe fear… hesitation? ⏳

🥺 I have to admit that for me is the second one.. even if it is hard to admit… 😔 I FEEL FEAR AND HESITATION…. Because SEPARATION is the door to the unfamiliar and that makes me uncomfortable… 🌪 The associations that I had with the word separation were PAINFUL as in the past I experienced PAIN and ANXIETY … ⛈ to share an example, the first thing I thought about was when I said yes to come to the US and my whole world completely changed… I had to face many challenges and the hardest part was that I had to be away from my family, I felt ALONE and a bit LOST while figuring out how to go about doing life in a new place… 😢 I had a very DISEMPOWERING way to face separation… and you can guess that I struggled with dealing with separation… ☹️

😉 I couldn't let myself down... so I MUST FLIP the coin and share how I recovered and leveraged SEPARATION…. A more EMPOWERING view… 🌤 I changed the meaning of SEPARATION to INDEPENDENCE and the OPPORTUNITY to explore a new country, ✨✨meet new people and enjoy experiences that can only be lived by moving to the US… 🌈🌟I have experienced great OPPORTUNITIES and NEW BEGINNINGS that have led me to find my dreams and be more connected with my personal purpose. The biggest gift!! I found the path to ALIGN myself CLOSER TO MY LIFE MISSION and now I am living a more fulfilled life. 😇😇 This is the outcome of my separation from my life in Ecuador to come to the US to explore a new reality…. 🌟🌟 an exponential personal growth 😃

😉The focus that we have about situations, people and live events is DRIVEN by the associations that we make based on our past experiences and our mindsets…. Is your identity moving you forward or keeping you stuck?

💫WHAT WOULD HAPPEN if every time we are FACED WITH SEPARATION we can APPROACH it from an EMPOWERED way… 💪 meaning EXCITEMENT, OPPORTUNITY, NEW BEGINNINGS… 🌈 what will be the meaning that we can attach to a divorce, death, end of a relationship, losing a job… and many other situations? 🦋WHAT IF THAT separation is THE BEST transformative 🦋 thing that happens to you because it gets you on the path of THE LIFE YOU WERE MEANT TO LIVE? 🦋

🌾If change is the only certain thing in our lives and we will face SEPARATION wouldn’t it make sense to train our EMPOWERING MUSCLE to make the best out of experiences and situations to shape THE BEST VERSION OF OURSELVES?

💪 WOULD YOU DARE TO CHOOSE BUILDING YOUR EMPOWERING MUSCLE TO FACE SEPARATION?💪